2020 Book List

I made an easy change to my bedtime routine that helped me sleep better, accomplish my goal to read more, and it was long overdue!

I started charging my phone on the dresser out of reach from the bed. Game changer!

My 2020 Book List with Mini-Reviews:

• Dirty Rush – Taylor Bell : a juicy, voyeuristic look inside the scandalous side of sorority life. (Based on true events)

• Everything is Figureoutable – Marie Forleo : one of my favorite personal development books I’ve read to date. Easy to apply real-life advice and anecdotes.

• Turning Point – Danielle Steel : as entertaining as it was unremarkable

• Born Standing Up – Steve Martin : I’m not sure why I picked this book, but I’m glad I did.

• Virgin River – Robyn Carr : this grocery store paperback is a gateway drug to a 21-book series and Netflix original series. Begin at your own risk.

• Such a Fun Age – Kiley Reid : an engrossing story with lovable characters. A page-turner that didn’t rely on cheap thrills to keep me engrossed.

• Educated – Tara Westover : The Best Nonfiction Book I Read in 2020.

• Gone Girl – Gillian Flynn : As great as everyone said it was!

• ***bonus movie review: a good-telling of a good-story that remained loyal to the novel in both story and format. A prime example of an unreliable narrator. Great casting choices, especially Rosamund Pike as the lead actress, who played the multifaceted main character so well. Each side of her character, Amy Dunne, was portrayed authentically.

• Freedom – Jonathan Franzen : hated it. **See footnote for soapbox rant

• Shelter Mountain | Whispering Rock – Robyn Carr : 2 novels in the continuation of the Virgin River series.

• Conversations with Tom Petty : required reading for any Tom Petty fan!

• The Vanishing Half – Brit Bennett : a great novel that explored deep themes of family, self-identity, and the fluidity of race in a compelling story. The Best Fiction Book I Read in 2020.

• The Maze Runner – James Dashner : An unexpectedly good page-turned, especially for a YA novel. I would continue the trilogy if it wasn’t a dystopian setting.

• The Bonesetter’s Daughter – Amy Tan : I enjoyed it from the beginning, but it took me half of the book to realize the plot: a family drama that spans many generations, characters, and cultures. I enjoyed it enough to start her collection of nonfiction writings, The Opposite of Fate, and another novel of Tan’s, The Joy luck Club, is on my 2021 list.

• The Opposite of Fate – a book of musings – Amy Tan : Reading in Progress. Interesting thus far!

• Virgin River Christmas – Robyn Carr : Trashy literature, but at Christmas.


***footnote for soapbox rant re: Freedom – Jonathan Franzen (spoiler alert) : I wanted to like it. It was recommended to me, and I invested in the hardback copy. This story was depressing and not in the entertaining family-drama way. It’s a slice of life story which follows stagnant characters that are living toxic lives of deceit and betrayal. I continued reading hoping there would be a come-to-Jesus shift in the characters but this never happened. I get to the end of the novel and, while I hated it, I could at least respect that the author told an unconventional story that refused to give the characters a happy ending. Not my cup of tea, but okay – well done. -AND THEN- The book’s afterword is another 30 pages where everything is tied-up in a nice bow, everything is forgiven, and people go skipping off hand-in-hand through a meadow at sunset. NO! In this dystopian reality the author created over 300+ pages, there was never a happy-ending option (no matter how I wanted it). It felt too fake and wholly unbelievable. At the last minute the author got cold feet and couldn’t stick to the premise. Not only do I not recommend this book, I vocally discourage you from reading it.

Baked Potato Soup Recipe 8/52

Winter is right around the corner. Or, if you’re in Colorado, Winter showed up uninvited after Labor Day. To me, Winter Weather means Soup Weather! I was looking for something fast and easy and I found it in this Instapot Potato Soup recipe.

Instant Pot Potato Soup

The only kitchen gadget you need is an Instant Pot. No blender needed to make this soup. And no cream is used either, so it’s a healthier spin on this delicious dish. You likely have all of the pantry staples needed to make this soup, but here’s a short list of outliers to make sure you’re prepared:

  • 4 Russet Potatoes
  • 2 Shallots
  • Vegetable Broth
  • Old Bay Seasoning

We used a potato masher to get the proper creamy potato texture for the base of the soup. We wanted it to have some extra body, so we gave one of the potatoes a rustic chop (everything is better if its rustic) and boiled it in vegetable broth to stir in later with the milk and seasoning.

Recipe and Photo credit to https://www.acouplecooks.com/

Banana Oat Chocolate Chip Muffins Recipe 5/52

The ‘gram has spoken and they voted for the muffins. It was a surprising upset in the polls.

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The muffins are delicious. Healthy enough with the Greek Yogurt and Oats to share with my daughter. Sweet enough with the chocolate chips to satisfy the sweet tooth. Before I share the recipe, I have two short but important pieces of advice related to these muffins:

  1. I added a teaspoon of cinnamon. Baking with bananas but not cinnamon is just wrong in my (recipe) book.
  2. I doubled the amount of chocolate chips because #chocolateislife.

Banana Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Muffins

Drink-Free February

Took this pic to show-off my spring tonal manicure 💅

Between the Holidays and my Birthday Month, I took a month off from drinking. I appreciate the introspection this gave me for noticing when I wanted to drink:

  • Celebrations/Family Functions
  • Date Nights
  • Valentines Day
  • Relaxing in the bath on a weekend evening
  • Hard days at work
  • Getting hit in the face by my toddler

There were moments of temptation, but was it difficult? No.

Did I enjoy my first cocktail in March (pictured above)? Yes!

When I shared my dry-month progress with a friend, she thoughtfully asked if I had been drinking more than usual lately, gently inquiring if I was struggling with dependency. This was not the case. And I don’t fault her for asking. If you’re worried about a loved one, it doesn’t hurt to ask. And if you’re struggling, there are resources:

ALCOHOL & DRUG HELPLINE
Call 800-923-4357
(24/7/365)
Text RecoveryNow to 839863
(8am-11pm PST daily)
For individuals and family members seeking crisis intervention, treatment referral, and chemical-dependency information.

Fluffy Buttermilk Pancakes Recipe 3/52

One of my favorite things to do on the weekend is enjoy a big breakfast/brunch as a family. This recipe is easy enough to whip up a batch for brinner (breakfast for dinner).

Fluffy Buttermilk Pancakes

The recipe is big enough to only make half and we still have leftovers in the freezer.

I added chocolate chips to a few of the pancakes and the sweetness was a nice counterpoint to the tang of the buttermilk.

I started the recipe before realizing we didn’t have baking soda, and I found this simple method for substituting baking powder for baking soda.

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Turkey & Vegetable Chili Recipe 2/52

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Have you heard of the Mealime App? It’s an easy-to-use meal-planning app and the free version has great features and recipes.

This is a yummy recipe to throw in the crockpot this weekend. Perfect for chilly (chili! haha) weather. We got an Instapot for Christmas and used the slow-cooker feature.

I added a can of black beans (because it’s not chili if it doesn’t have beans!) and a small can of tomato paste.

Turkey & Veggie Chili

20/20 Vision

2020 Vision

  1. Try one new recipe a week
  2. Create vision board Done! Check Out My Vision Board Here.
  3. Monthly social engagements
  4. Monthly spending freeze See how much money I saved in February
  5. One month of sobriety I included a resource in this blog post
  6. Run a 5K
  7. Go to the beach
  8. Go to a movie alone
  9. Sell the truck
  10. Organize downstairs closet
  11. Organize dresser drawers
  12. Organize upstairs closet
  13. Consign/Donate my clothes
  14. Consign/Donate Amelia’s clothes
  15. Start retirement plan Done! Thank you NEW JOB for offering this awesome benefit.
  16. Create will
  17. Take quilting class
  18. Teach a Holy Yoga class
  19. Pay down credit card debt my half
  20. Read 6 new books